How to Foster a Positive Relationships with Math

by Sasha Fajerstein

posted by Sasha Fajerstein

More often than not, when I tell people I am a high school math teacher, the response I get sounds something like “Wow, that sounds awful. I hated math in school” or “Oh. I am so bad at math!”math-confusion

At the very beginning of each school year, I give my students an assignment called “My Mathematical Biography.” This assignment includes questions about students’ past experiences with math, expectations for the coming school year, feelings about math in general, and more. Some students put a great deal of effort into this assignment while some answer each question in only one or two sentences. Regardless of the effort a student puts into the biography assignment, I have found the relationship between a student’s success in my class and the answer to the first biography question to be very interesting. The question reads as follows: Overall, how do you feel about math? Have you always felt that way, or were there specific experiences or moments that have given you that feeling? If the latter, what were they, and why were they important?

Negative feelings about math are often traceable to a previous teacher or class, but a positive relationship with math often is credited to parents or siblings.

The two most harmful attitudes to portray to children as a caregiver are either: you hate math and just aren’t a math person so that means they probably won’t be either or math has always come easily for you and it’s not hard so your kid shouldn’t be struggling with it. Both of these portrayals ignore the fact that each child has his/her own potential for success in math. My experience as a teacher has shown me that attitude and perseverance have just as much impact on success in math as predictive test scores. So how can you, as a caregiver, make sure that your child develops a positive attitude towards math?

  • Provide them with opportunities to learn from mistakes. Allow them to try problems that you know they may not be successful with on the first attempt.
  • Reinforce the idea that learning comes from trying new things. Try a new recipe with them or have them read a book aloud that they’ve never read before.
  • Only talk about your own math experience as a positive learning opportunity regardless of your grades or test scores. Say things like “I learned so much about ____ in ___ grade or ____ math class” or “The first time I ever thought about that was in ____ class.” Avoid saying things like “Oh I hated division problems,” “I was so bad at word problems,” or “That class was so easy for me!”
  • Highlight connections between math and the world. A great list of resources and lessons that provide connections between early math through adolescent math and real life applications can be found here:

Fostering a positive attitude towards math and mathematical concepts allows students to reach full potential in each class and become a strong math student from early childhood through adolescence and early adulthood.




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